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The New Hire Who Asked About Work-Life Balance

The New Hire Who Asked About Work-Life Balance

She asked about it in the second interview. The people across the table had a reaction that was quickly suppressed but not quickly enough.

She asked about it in the second interview. Not the first, where she had mostly answered questions. In the second, where she had been invited to ask her own, she asked about the work-life balance at the company and whether the team worked late regularly.

The people conducting the interview had a reaction that was quickly suppressed but not quickly enough. The question was a small flag of something generational.

A decade ago the second interview question was about opportunities for advancement. Five years ago it was beginning to be about culture. Now it is sometimes the hours. The directness of asking about the hours, of treating this as a legitimate criterion rather than something to discover after the offer is accepted, is a relatively new behaviour. It makes people who built careers in environments where asking that question was unthinkable feel a complicated combination of things.

The discomfort is not entirely without basis. There are jobs that require the hours. There are seasons of work that ask more than the usual allocation. There are environments where people willingly give more than the contract specifies because they believe in what they are building. None of this has disappeared.

What has also not disappeared is the culture in some organisations of treating long hours as a signal of commitment, regardless of whether the long hours correspond to useful output. The person who is at their desk at nine pm is not necessarily doing work that required them to be at their desk at nine pm. They are sometimes demonstrating a willingness to be at their desk at nine pm, which is a different thing.

The new hire is asking a question that older generations absorbed without asking, and then either adapted to or quietly resented without naming the resentment. She has named it. This creates discomfort in exactly the proportion that the question exposes something worth examining.

Whether she gets hired or not, and at which kind of company, is a small individual outcome. What it represents in aggregate is a negotiation that is happening across the Malaysian workforce between what work has traditionally required and what a generation that came of age during a pandemic is prepared to offer.

The hours were always a cost. The difference is that someone is now saying so out loud.